Know your reason
Not just transgender dating, there should always be a proper reason behind every kind of a relationship you are looking for. It must be specific friendship or love but nothing apart from these two things. You should not play games with anyone when it comes to trans dating. You should know the 'why’ thing behind your relationship with someone. If you seriously love him or her then only move forward in your trans date. Relationships are meant to be love and fun.
Finding a Partner
So when you have decided to hookup date a trans person then go for someone who matches your personality, someone who can understand your thoughts and point of view and different choices you make. Trans people are so sensitive and lovable once they get comfortable with someone. They care a lot. And you know relationships are all about the happiness you experience with each other and that can happen only if you are able to accept each other with everything who you are and love each other.
It's all about fun
It's about being happy, having fun and laughing with each other. The more you laugh together, the happier your relationship will be. Once you have found your trans partner than do your best to make each other happy. Always try to do something special for each other. Make a little time for your partner even if you are too busy.
Support
Look being a trans and being in a relationship with a cis partner or even a trans partner is not that easy most of the times. Society is not that supportive to everyone. And people judge too easily. So you both have to understand that fact that you are the one for each other. You got to support your partner no matter what. Your support to each other with will go a long way and make your bond more and more strong each day. The stronger your bond is, the happier you will be.
#Do not hide
You must understand you keep yourself hidden, the harder it is to see who you really are. Hiding is something you can't afford for a longer time.If you cannot accept your own identity do not accept it from others. You are in a relationship you have to come out some day. Trans people are not confident to come out of hidden mask and representing themselves as a Partner of someone in a relationship. This is because people react to their identity so much. They ask indirect questions straight on their face.But that doesn't work any way. You are who you are. So don't be afraid to reveal yourself. The right person will always stand by your side. Period.
Understanding
Always communicate about the things you don't want and the ones you want. This always helps. You have to understand each other. You love each other right. You must understand each other.